When in a relationship do you make the other person feel more important than you make yourself? Why?

In growing up you always seen you parents as they where. The good the bad and the ugly. So a women was raised to wait on a man hand and foot, but times have changed these women working taking care of the man and he's sitting at home playing video games, etc.. The kids are in daycare and she coming home giving him change to do whatever it is he wants, which makes it hard for the women who was taught; "A MAN LEGS SHOULDN'T BE UNDER THE TABLE IF HE ISN'T PUTTING FOOD ON THE TABLE" If all you have offer me is some Dick, you can buy that from Bedroom Kandi and don't have to worry about a disease or a chick calling your phone about a nigga and guest what you can go to a bar and have a one night stand if all you want was somebody heat for a day.